Portrait of writer Joe O’Donnell smiling indoors, wearing a black long-sleeve shirt.

I never wanted to look like other boys.

Joe O’Donnell was born and raised in Massachusetts before finding his true home in San Francisco. His professional career peaked prematurely when he became the manager of a suburban record store in the 1980s, before evolving—more conventionally—into a long career in marketing, brand creation, and creative direction. Often described as “just too gay,” Joe spent decades in therapy, which eventually (and perhaps inevitably) led him to pick up a pen after a dare from his therapist.  His debut memoir, Another Generation Ruined, was a finalist for the Santa Fe Writers Program Literary Award. Excerpts from the book have appeared in Avalon Literary Review and as a featured essay on I Have That on Vinyl. He is currently developing a screenplay adaptation.  Joe lives in San Francisco.

ABOUT AGR
Set in the suburbs of 1980s Massachusetts, Another Generation Ruined follows a boy trapped inside a divorce so vicious it spills into national headlines, leaving him caught between his mother’s wrath and a church eager to condemn. As his family implodes under surveillance, shame, and control, his deepest secret—being gay—feels not just unspeakable, but dangerous. Refuge comes in unlikely forms: a suburban record store, the voice of Tina Turner, and pop music—loud enough to almost drown everything else. Against a Gen X backdrop of heavy metal, roller skating, drugs, and estrangement, Another Generation Ruined is a brutally candid and darkly funny memoir about secrecy, survival, and a boy determined to escape the story written for him.

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