Portrait of writer Joe O’Donnell smiling indoors, wearing a black long-sleeve shirt.

I never wanted to look like the other boys.

Joe O’Donnell was born and raised in Massachusetts before finding his true home in San Francisco. His professional career peaked prematurely when he became the manager of a suburban record store in the 1980s, before evolving into a long career in marketing, brand creation, and creative direction. Often described as “just too gay,” Joe has spent decades in therapy—which, eventually and inevitably, led him to pick up a pen after a dare from his therapist.
His debut memoir, Another Generation Ruined, was a finalist for the Santa Fe Writers Program Literary Award. Excerpts from the book have appeared in Avalon Literary Review and as a featured essay on I Have That on Vinyl. He is currently developing a screenplay adaptation.
Joe lives in San Francisco.

ABOUT AGR

Set in the suburbs of 1980s Massachusetts, Another Generation Ruined follows a boy trapped inside a divorce so vicious it spills into national headlines, leaving him caught between his mother’s wrath and a church eager to condemn. As his family implodes, his deepest secret, being gay, feels impossible to survive.
Refuge comes in unlikely forms: a suburban record store, the guiding voice of Tina Turner, and the saving grace of pop music. Against a freewheeling Gen-X backdrop of heavy metal, roller skating, drugs, and estrangement, Another Generation Ruined is a brutally candid and wicked-funny memoir about resilience, chosen family, and a boy determined to make it out alive.
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